Racism in America - Taking Time to Listen, Learn, Reflect, and Act

We are currently in a time of reckoning. As a white person who is privileged by structures of institutional racism in America—I am committed to actively and mindfully utilizing these unearned advantages to "take on the problems borne of oppression as my own, without remove or distance", as professor and writer Roxane Gay defines it. I want to exercise allyship as a verb, not a self-proclaimed noun. This intention is something I must choose every day.

It is time for me…

to listen.

to learn (or to unlearn, as the case may be).

to reflect.

to act.

This will be a process.

I realize the internet is full of ideas on how to proceed with this intention. I have broken down a few of the ways, I am seeking to be an antiracist.

1. Listen to marginalized voices, and remember the importance of intersectionality.

Instagram Accounts I am Appreciating

Consider donating/supporting them in the work they do.

@thegreatunlearn

@rachel.cargle

@trinitysierra

@ronaldlbanks

@greengirlleah

@britthawthorne

@stephanieyeboah

@ibramxk

@ihartericka

@mspackyetti

@eddiendopu

2. Learn

Note: Do NOT rely on people of color to teach and do your own work for you. There are plenty of resources you can access and learn from all on your own.

Movies I Have Seen and Recommend

13th—a documentary on the criminalization of people of color in America.

Eyes on the Prize documentary on PBS

Maya Angelou: And Still I Rise

4 LIttle Girls

The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson

Just Mercy—a movie based on the work and life of Bryan Stephenson (who wrote a book by the same name). The film centers on a wrongly condemned death row prisoner but also shows the corruption behind law enforcement and the justice system in the south for people of color.

Blindspotting—A man just released from prison witnesses a police officer gun down a man of color late one night. We see into the psyche of this character in such a stirring way. If you love music and poetry—you may especially like this film.

Red Table Talk on Colorism (but every episode is worthwhile) on Facebook

I am not Your Negro—a documentary about James Baldwin

Malcom X

The Central Park Five

The Hate U Give

Selma

Roots (the miniseries) based on the book by Alex Haley

What Happened, Miss Simone?

The Color Purple

If Beale Street Could Talk

Fences

Podcasts I Have Listened to and Recommend

Serial (Season 3)— focuses on the impact of one courthouse in Cleveland and its impact on the black community. Engaging. Masterful. Tragic.

White Lies—attempts to solve the mystery of who killed Jim Reeb in Selma back in 1965 after the famous march across the Edmund Pettus Bridge. Three men were tried but none were convicted. A look at how racism covered the murder but also, how those lies have affected the community ever since.

On Scene (Season 2)—Seeing White—I am about to start this one. It was nominated for a Peabody award.

Books I Have Read and Recommend

White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism (nonfiction)

Just Mercy by Bryan Stephenson (nonfiction and memoir)

The Sun Does Shine by Anthony Ray Hinton (memoir)

The work of Toni Morrison (They are all masterful)

The writing of James Baldwin

The Autobiography of Malcom X by Alex Haley

The Color Purple by Alice Walker

Mistake Were Made (but Not By Me) by Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson

Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora Neale Hurston

Jubilee by Margaret Walker

Books on my List to Read

The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander

Heavy: An American Memoir by Kiese Laymon

Stamped :Racism, Antiracism, and You by Ibram X. Kendi

How to Be an AntiRacist by Ibram X. Kendi

White Teeth by Zadie Smith

The Fire Next Time by James Baldwin

My Vanishing Country by Bakari Sellers

Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates

Hood Feminism by Mikki Kendall

Books for Children and Teens

I am Enough by Grace Byers

Hair Love by Matthew A. Cherry

The Snowy Day or A Whistle for Willie by Ezra Jack Keats

Antiracist Baby by Ibram X.Kendi

This Book Is Anti-Racist by Tiffany Jewell and Aurelia Durand

Well-Read Black Girl by Gloria Edim

Dear White People by Justin Simien

Monster by Walter Dean Myers

The Hate U Give and On The Come Up by Angie Thomas

All American Boys by Jason Reynolds and Brendan Kiely

Tyler Johnson Was Here by Jay Coles

Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry by Mildred D. Taylor

3. Reflect

Take time to process what you learn. Integrate it. Make it part of you. See your own blinds spots.

4. ACT

Sign petitions. To begin with…

Breonna Taylor

George Floyd

Ahmaud Arbery

Protest safely.

Vote intentionally.

Get involved where you can.

Speak up in conversations.

Donate intentionally.

https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/supporting-black-lives-matter

https://cupofjo.com/2020/06/where-to-donate-black-lives-matter/

Support black-owned businesses.

See here and here for some ideas

Support Instagram accounts monetarily that educate (see above for some ideas).

Want more ideas? See here.

It is a privilege to educate yourself about racism instead of experiencing it.

Tess Holliday

Now, what have I missed? Have you found additional resources to share? May we lean into our full humanity as we dedicate ourselves to the work ahead. Sending love your way.

Margi Dehlin

Life Transition Coach | Blogger | Mother of Four | Health & Wellness | Minimalism

https://www.beautyinthenow.org
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